Blogword of the day : void
You know that feeling when everything seems to be goin right and then suddenly you instincts go like "waitaminute, things cant be perfect for this guy", yeh thats the feeling,ever been through one. Nah, I aint gonna whine about life or anything, just that its pretty ironic how convieniantly people get frustrated at their own account but never seem to realize it. As youngsters we thing that if our relationships dont work out we're gonna be miserable for the rest of our lives, then we get into another one and think 'hey this could be the one', but what makes us so damn sure. Is it holding hands at the movies, late night diners, early morning wake up calls...what?!?!
The funny part is that some people actually run away from what they cant face and think that 'time will heal it all' and they'll get over it. Well yeh in some cases time does heal in others you just have to face the facts and live a little. What do i mean by that? well live a little, do things youve missed out on, things you've always wanted to do, spend time with people whom you havent been with, cook, eat, jump, run.....simple stuff. Ive got two dudes here who're like my childhood pals, one just finished a 10 year relationship with his school-time girl and the other is about to finish his relationship for about an year. They both seem equally devasted about it, why?? how can one compare 10 years to 1 year, because the end result is the same. They both didnt know how to handle their relationship, they couldnt recognize the signs when they had the chance. Sometimes the simplest of issues could be the problem, in the case of us traditional people...the DESI human, its usually our parents, simply because they believe they know whats best for us, and you cant blame them, they brought us up, we have to credit them for knowing some part of us. I remember when I was in a relationship, everyone I knew was against it, it still lasted 3 years, probably the best break up a guy can go through, ofcourse I was messed up but the beautiful part was that I learnt alot....I probably learnt more from this girl than most girls out there, why? because she was practical, she took risks, she had the guts to face life in the face. Not find an alternative, not run away, not ignore whats ahead of us....thats what I learnt. I mean lets face it, we've all been through heart breaks and sleepless nights....its not gonna prove anything, it'll just keep you in Void. You wanna prove something, get compatible, literally understand, compromise very little, trust what you can feel & under no circumstance use the phrase 'I love you' every second of your relationship, it looses its meaning if overused. Be casual, dont get too personal, dont ever freakin' assume, youre probably wrong about it, believe me, Ive been assumed about a GAZILLION times, god knows what the girl would end up thinking. Anyway, just something that crossed my mind today so I thought i'd leave my thoughts here. No offense to anyone...btw, I know you guys are reading this so go ahead and leave your thoughts on it too.
Peace.
The funny part is that some people actually run away from what they cant face and think that 'time will heal it all' and they'll get over it. Well yeh in some cases time does heal in others you just have to face the facts and live a little. What do i mean by that? well live a little, do things youve missed out on, things you've always wanted to do, spend time with people whom you havent been with, cook, eat, jump, run.....simple stuff. Ive got two dudes here who're like my childhood pals, one just finished a 10 year relationship with his school-time girl and the other is about to finish his relationship for about an year. They both seem equally devasted about it, why?? how can one compare 10 years to 1 year, because the end result is the same. They both didnt know how to handle their relationship, they couldnt recognize the signs when they had the chance. Sometimes the simplest of issues could be the problem, in the case of us traditional people...the DESI human, its usually our parents, simply because they believe they know whats best for us, and you cant blame them, they brought us up, we have to credit them for knowing some part of us. I remember when I was in a relationship, everyone I knew was against it, it still lasted 3 years, probably the best break up a guy can go through, ofcourse I was messed up but the beautiful part was that I learnt alot....I probably learnt more from this girl than most girls out there, why? because she was practical, she took risks, she had the guts to face life in the face. Not find an alternative, not run away, not ignore whats ahead of us....thats what I learnt. I mean lets face it, we've all been through heart breaks and sleepless nights....its not gonna prove anything, it'll just keep you in Void. You wanna prove something, get compatible, literally understand, compromise very little, trust what you can feel & under no circumstance use the phrase 'I love you' every second of your relationship, it looses its meaning if overused. Be casual, dont get too personal, dont ever freakin' assume, youre probably wrong about it, believe me, Ive been assumed about a GAZILLION times, god knows what the girl would end up thinking. Anyway, just something that crossed my mind today so I thought i'd leave my thoughts here. No offense to anyone...btw, I know you guys are reading this so go ahead and leave your thoughts on it too.
Peace.
posted by Korogaz at 10:21 PM
1 Comments:
agreeeddd 100% agreed,BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS.....they make u learn alot,imean really alot.the way ive judged is it brings out a whole new person in u,somthing that u never had imagined that it cud even exist nd u come to learn it.teaches u alot.very well written it is.
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